What if she absolutely despises sex. I guess the only risk is your husband having an affair with someone at work. You and your husband are truly a team, even though things are not always equal.
Found this blog just now after searching "married to a surgeon". If you really like this girl, might want to show her this. You should not be trying to be exclusive with one person, so go on dates with as many people as you can. I don't want to give up as I think it is still the stress of the exams that is motivating her response and that given time, we could work things out and have a very special and loving relationship. Do people that are that busy honestly not have time to even think about their SO.
It can burn, and it can burn you hardcore. But I'm wondering about one thing: Do I have cause to be scared out of my mind, or should I just take a chill pill. She is a returned missionary, and won't Marry you if you want to stay atheist. Word to the wise, wait a day or two. You were a banker too. I am also certain that there are callings and opportunities that I would have had, were I married to a faithful LDS woman, that I have missed. Marriage is meant to be eternal.
Sexuality is the enemy of romance, and romance is amazing. I am a happily married mono-faith guy who has no testimony of dusted base boards. I also write erotic shorts which I hope help women heal from bad relationship and envision what they really want and create it.